Recently I felt an urge to visit Claire's blog (Claire is a Christian friend I met through a forum I've belonged to for several years now). All I can say is it must have been an urging from God as she posted a perfect post for the struggle I have had about priorities in life.
With her kind permission I am posting a link to her site and that post called "A New Mercy For Me This Morning". I hope this will bless and help you as well :)
Blessings to Claire, her family & to you,
New 'cinnamon' fern frond